Understanding men

Lesson 4: Men need space

Imagine how you would act if you would be home alone. Now imagine how he would act if he would be alone. And now draw an imaginary red line between your life and his life. We will be speaking a lot about this red line later on when we talk about saving or keeping a relationship. But already now you should know that everything about your relationship takes place on this red line or in its area. It is all about how deep you penetrate his territory or how far he goes into yours. Sometimes it only takes the understanding of this game to save a relationship.

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Understanding men

Lesson 1

If you are reading this article, I am sure you already understood: man and women are different and this fact makes understanding men a very hard work. And this is not because we had long hair and they did not and we got dolls and they got cars. We are totally different beings, not only humans with a small biological difference. Man act, think and express themselves differently. If you live with one, you got to learn to understand him better if you want to use him for your purposes . It is especially true if you want to build a strong relationship. In the following five lessons I put down the most basic things you have to know about men.

Lesson 1: Men are simple. Remember the guy singing in “My fair lady” (”A hymn to Him”): “Why can’t a woman be more like a man?” If you got some time, find those lyrics on the web and read them. You will know exactly how he feels about you. All he wants is that you would be just a bit more like him. Continue reading ‘Understanding men: who they are and how to handle them (in a relationship)’