There are many kinds of love problems in a relationship, but It comes down to some main common relationship issues that I would like to talk about. I think that the reason to most of the problems in relationships is that we don’t really understand the difference between men and women and that every each of them has a different needs. Therefore there are a lot of marriage issues and high percentage of couples that are breaking up.
Men don’t listen- is that’s true?
How many times you men heard the words ” you don’t listen to me!” Or how many times you women heard the words ” not now”. Men are not like women. They don’t have the urge to express themselves in words like women do. Women have to- this is their nature. The question is how to find the balance, Its about the timing, and about remembering that your partner have different needs then your needs. Men will listen as much as they can if they will feel they are getting what they need.
So what men want in a woman? Man need to feel that he has the space to do the things he likes to do. He needs to feel that he’s woman is taking care of him just like his mother… If he’s feeling satisfied then he can give anything that he’s woman wants from him and if he understand that she wants him to listen then he will…
What are the women’s needs? Woman needs to feel that the man care about her and love her. There is a big confusion about this issue and many woman ask themselves ” does he really love me?” and maybe in the beginning of the relationship also use “does he like me quiz”. But to measure if he loves you by the way he’s listens to you, is not always the right thing to do. You should tell him what you need and he should tell you too what he needs. This is the only way you can try to make the relationship work and get successful relationships.
I think that the best solution to relationship problems is to know the basic differences between you, and then to understand the needs of your partner.
Here is a video that talks about common relationship problems
One Comment
It’s all give and take. I think it takes a solid year to get to really know a person. Great article!