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Understanding men - Lesson 4: Men need space

Understanding men

Lesson 4: Men need space

Imagine how you would act if you would be home alone. Now imagine how he would act if he would be alone. And now draw an imaginary red line between your life and his life. We will be speaking a lot about this red line later on when we talk about saving or keeping a relationship. But already now you should know that everything about your relationship takes place on this red line or in its area. It is all about how deep you penetrate his territory or how far he goes into yours. Sometimes it only takes the understanding of this game to save a relationship.

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PTSD Symptoms and Acute Stress Disorder Following Separation and Divorce

How to Identify Acute Stress Disorder Following Separation and Divorce
(some PTSD symptoms)

By Mark Sichel, LCSW

Going through a divorce often evokes an initial burst of energy and sometimes elation. You have a great deal to do when you break up your home and the rhythm of your daily life. Whatever the precipitant to the divorce, you’ve got housing arrangements to make. You need to change your bank accounts, the beneficiary of your retirement accounts, change or get new medical insurance. Like any trauma or emergency, you need all the adrenaline and competence you can muster to get through this challenging time.

PTSD
PTSD

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Understanding men - Lesson 3: Men must pleasure

Understanding men - Lesson 3: Men must pleasure

On this site, you will never find an article on understanding women. Why? It’s because men don’t really want to understand us. Ever tried to explain yourself to a man? What was the reaction? He got nervous. His face got an expression of deep suffer and his eyes were checking the room for an emergency exit. In his face you could read: OMG. Ho do I get out of here.

Understanding men

Understanding men

I will tell you why. You probably overloaded the machine. His brain does not have a program for this. He has only one simple program: Hunt and then pleasure her. Believe it or not, he really wants you to feel good. But the best thing is, if he doesn’t have to do anything for it besides being him. I am great. I am with you. We have good sex. What else can you want?
From the beginning of the history of mankind women won wars without a single battle, led states behind the backs of their husbands and moved mountains without losses, by simply letting men know how to pleasure them. I don’t believe that Cleopatra ever explained Caesar or Mark Antony how she feels. She probably just said something like: “By the way, to reign Egypt alone would really make me feel good” :) or something like this. Talking about Cleopatra: know why men will always like bit**es? Because those type of women make men want to pleasure them. Do you get my point? The golden rule is: lean back, give him space to pleasure you and tell him how.

Understanding men - part 1

Understanding men - part 2

Understanding men - part 3

Understanding men - part 4

Help with Divorce Recovery - 10 Tips for Recovering from the Trauma of a Divorce

Help with Divorce Recovery

10 Tips for Recovering from the Trauma of a Divorce

Divorce can be the biggest trauma of your life. Many people have come to therapy because of the psychological challenges and problems they are facing with their divorce. Often these clients are suffering from symptoms of acute stress disorder, which manifests itself in feeling shattered, fragmented, and overwhelmed. The following tips can be extremely helpful in situations of severe stress. Divorce is definitely one of these situations. These tips are, of course, applicable to all sorts of traumas, so “borrow” them for any other kind of trauma or crisis that comes your way in life.

Part of the problem is that your repertoire of coping tools isn’t working for you. When you and your partner split up it can be the worst crisis you’ve ever experienced. The fourteen suggestions that follow are meant to be used over time. You can’t integrate and follow through on these ideas in one sitting. Review and think about as much as you can take in today. Tomorrow is another day, your process of healing is unique to you and you’ve got to respect that now more than ever. Here are your sanity savers. Continue reading ‘Help with Divorce Recovery - 10 Tips for Recovering from the Trauma of a Divorce’




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